All of the Memories, None of the Guilt

Two years ago, in December of 2009, I was relatively new to the whole photography thing.  I had done several sessions, I had a blog, I followed other photographers online.  I joined a photography forum of other like-minded photographers and we shared trials and tribulations as newcomers to the field.  When the calendar page turned to January, suddenly from every corner of the internet I was being beckoned to try a photo-a-day or 365 project.  Eager to fit in with my new community, I readily signed up.  I opened a flickr account, and I started taking a picture every day.  I didn’t really have a theme or a goal in mind, I was just taking a picture each day.  Some days were easy, but other days I found myself taking random pictures of a can from my pantry, or running back downstairs after I’d gotten in bed to take a picture of my kitchen in the dark or something.  As the weeks went by, many of my flickr friends slowly gave up.  But I was determined to finish something I started.  But as the weather turned warm and I began to spend more time outside with my kids, and less time sitting in front of my computer I took and uploaded fewer and fewer pictures.  I soldiered on out of guilt, but was filled with resentment about the project.  I finally fizzled out around mid May.

In the years since, every January first, I think to myself for an hour or two that I should try again because everyone else is doing it.   I watched one friend successfully document her life last year, and am envious that she completed her task.  She now has 365 photos of her children, her friends and her life, and 365 great memories and stories to share.  This year, I thought about trying again.  With an iPhone it should be even easier, but then there’s some days that I just don’t do anything exciting or worth taking a photo of.  Despite having a photography business, there are some days I just want to veg out and enjoy the moments when I’m in them and not feel like I HAVE to take a picture. I can’t think of many other professions where workers set themselves up to do extra work just for fun every day and then post the results online and share with friends.  Can you imagine an accountant going home each night and saying “Now I’m going to do some tax forms just because I want to do one every day for a year and I didn’t do one yet today!”?

So anyway.  I did decide that I wanted to be more conscious of taking photographs for fun, for me, and to more carefully document things that we do as a family.  So I’m going to try to be good about posting a Weekly Favorites post here each week.  Some weeks I might have a dozen photos to share, others only one.   They might be from my iPhone, or they might be from a session, or from my camera.  I hope you’ll enjoy them, I hope that I’ll enjoy doing it without the self-imposed pressure, and I’d love any support or encouragement you can offer!

1.) sunrise through the bathroom window 2.) January sky 3.) halftime at basketball 4.) sunshine before the snow 5.) first road trip in dad’s new car 6.) snow on the wheat grass 7.) our new homework station in the dining room (saving grace) 8.) snow on crape myrtle

January 13, 2012 - 2:25 pm

Kate - Your project, your way – what could be better! I can’t wait to follow along.

January 13, 2012 - 1:32 pm

Catina - Totally made me giggle at the accountant reference… so true. I did complete a 365 a couple years ago (though I have regrets that I didn’t do mine with the calendar year – instead starting in March… the perfectionist in my is a little bothered by that for some reason…lol) and it is awesome to look back and have those memories. This year I hope to get my pictures from that year (now 2 years removed) into a photo book and off the computer! lol… it’s so hard to find time for these personal project. But it’s worth it! Looks like you’re off to a great start!

Holiday Round-Up | Ashburn Family Photographer

I’m still playing catch-up in the new year, and wanted to share a few little snap shots of “What I did over Winter Break”.  We basically had a stay-cation, with D taking the week off.  We had some visitors come and go, and for the most part, my camera stayed tucked away in my gorgeous new camera bag.  We played with all of our new toys, re-organized the basement and playroom to make room for those new toys, and had a very nice relaxing couple of weeks.  Here are a few little snippets of what the holidays looked like at our house:

Santa was very good to us this year, as you can see from the stash he left under the tree!

There were two prevailing themes at our house this holiday.  The first was Monster Jam Monster Trucks.  We went from having 5 trucks on Christmas Eve to having 22 trucks by Christmas Night…  The best worst thing about Monster Trucks is that there is a perpetual “freestyle course” set up all over our family room, which consists of boxes, ramps, and random cars.

The other gift which was a major success was Lego Trains.  These are basically the model trains you remember, made out of Legos.  Much easier for little hands to control and redesign and rebuild.  Our Engineers still need some work, but these have been a huge hit.  If you have little ones who like trains AND Legos, keep this idea in your back pocket for next year.

No Christmas post would be complete without the obligatory photos of the boys in front of the tree.  They didn’t really want to cooperate and pose together, so I had to settle for these shots.

The other super-exciting thing that happened since I’ve last posted is that Little Man turned 4.  I find it hard to believe I have a 4 year old in the house now, although he actually acts like he’s going on 8 like his big brother.  He surprised us this year by asking to go see trains rather than having a party, so this weekend we are off to see a layout with 8 miles of model train track.  Wish us luck.  :)

With the holidays finally behind us, I’m starting to get back to a normal routine.  I’m am loving that I’m already starting to hear from clients who are thinking about booking sessions this spring!  I’m headed up to my hometown to photograph my best friend from high school and her family this weekend and can’t wait.  I’ve promised her for two years that I’d do these photos the next time I was in town!  Think warm thoughts for us!

January 10, 2012 - 2:29 pm

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Extended Family Session | Northern Virginia Photographer

Happy New Year everyone!  I hope you all had a wonderful holiday with friends and family.  We certainly had a busy few weeks!  With my little man’s birthday coming on the heels of the New Year, I find it hard to get back into the swing of things.  I’ll try to post a holiday wrap-up next week, but today I wanted to share my final session of 2011.  I know this family has been patiently waiting for a preview all week!

When my client contacted me to schedule this session last fall, she wanted to schedule something the week between Christmas and New Years, when her brother and nephew would be home for the holidays.  We discussed several options but settled on shooting the session at her childhood home with her parents on what unfortunately was the only rainy day of the entire week.  While it was gray and dreary outside, the whole family was bright and cheery inside.  Photographing inside a smaller home filled with mementos and memories certainly presented it’s share of challenges, but I love that we were able to incorporate so many aspects of life and family togetherness into our session.

Let me start with this photo.  The family didn’t want to make the holidays the focus of the session, but they had a beautiful tree, (and the best part is that it can be seen from two different rooms!) I couldn’t resist taking at least a few in front of it.  I loved this photo the minute I snapped it, because of the joy on both of their faces.  I hope that when my children are grown and have kids of their own, my husband can still make me laugh like this.

Three generations of beautiful women.

For the three cousins, these stairs were the focal point of the house, every time I turned around someone was hanging upside down and asking me to take a photo.

This photo was a recreation of a treasured one that their grandmother has held onto since they were toddlers.  I think they take up a bit more of the stairs than they did last time!

Love this one of the men playing chess.  During the session someone would occasionally scurry out of the room and make a move.  Here there is a bit of instruction going on.  What a great family bond to have.

The rains broke for about 5 minutes and I dragged everyone outside.  You can’t tell from this photo, but it was drizzling a bit.  They were all annoyed at me because I was standing under the overhang of the garage staying dry while they were getting wet.  :)

Apparently there is a long-standing family photo tradition of these two jumping off the front steps.  I hear there is even one of Missy in her wedding gown.  When they asked for one I was happy to oblige!

One of the beautiful things about this home was the abundance of unique furnishings and decor items.  These chairs were fantastic and I can imagine spending many hours curled up with a blanket and a book in them.  I love this moment between the ladies.

One of the best things about photographing a family in their natural environment is the ability to capture snippets of the things that mean the most to them.  Whether it’s a particular piece of furniture, or a hobby that they love the most.  While many clients worry that their homes are too cluttered or too messy for photographs, the most meaningful moments can be preserved when we shoot in a home, and it’s easy to rearrange things!

I’m going to end with this final photo.  When I was packing up to leave Mrs C. presented me with a gorgeous book of photographs called Wise Women by Joyce Tenneson. At that moment I realized I hadn’t taken a photo of her alone, so we scurried to find her favorite spot in the house and give her a few moments alone in front of the camera.  Of all of the photos we took I think this image is my favorite.

M and C families, I hope you enjoy these photos.  There are still many more to come, but I wanted to get your preview to you today.  You were a joy to work with even on a dreary day.  Happy New Year!  

January 5, 2012 - 2:11 pm

Kate - I simply love this session, from the whimsical jumping-off-the-porch shots to the re-recreation of the beloved stairs shot. And Mrs. C., you are stunning! Your beauty shines in every photo, and while it’s so hard to choose, I think the one of you sharing a sweet sentiment with your granddaughter is my absolute favorite, probably because it makes me think of my own mom and daughter. Gorgeous, Kelly.

January 5, 2012 - 12:41 pm

Mindy - Absolutely beautiful session Kelly! I love how you worked with what you had (rain and all!) and made everything work so WELL for you!

Be Merry | Ashburn Family Photography

 

Merry Christmas friends.  Thank you to each and every one of you who take the time to stop by and visit each day – those who leave comments, and those who simply read.  I’ve been so blessed to be able to stay at home with my boys and to build this little business to keep myself busy doing what I love.  Stay tuned next week for a few of my favorites from this year. Until then, enjoy this week with your loved ones, and celebrate the magic of the season.

 

It’s Beginning to Look a lot like Christmas! | Ashburn Family Photography

 

According to my little pal there are 19 days left.

The good news is that our tree is up and the stocking have been hung by the {sealed gas fireplace} with care.

The bad news is that I sat down and started making a list of all of the things I need to do in those next 19 days… Unfortunately not one of the things on that list is “relax”.  So I think I’ll be taking a little bit of a blogging hiatus here.  While I may not go totally silent, I won’t be posting on the usual Tuesday – Thursday schedule I’d been trying to maintain.

Never fear though.  If you’re still looking for a holiday gift certificate, I’m not going anywhere – email me if you want to make a last minute purchase.

It’ll just be a little quiet on here for the next few weeks while I make merry with my boys.  XOXO – K

 

 

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